With my birthday just a week ago, I have had a lot of time to reflect on my life. Wow, I am no longer a teenager! Ahhhh! 20 years old seems so much older than 19 and it is no different than 19 was to 18, but nonetheless, I feel like I just took a major step forward when in reality I would much rather take a giant step back. I am not ready to face the real world yet and I would much rather just stay at Laurier for 10 more years (don’t worry, I actually won’t because that is way too expensive).
The older I get the closer I get to leaving school and entering the workforce, and honestly that thought scares the crap out of me! We are told that we are the future of this country, but how can I be the future if I can barely force myself out of bed in the morning! We are told in university to start thinking about the rest of our lives. What we do now affects our future and our kid’s future. To that I want to yell, “Hello World! I’m only 20 and I have no idea what I want to do for the rest of my life, leave me alone”. “
It is hard to think that the actions you take now can affect how you live tomorrow. One relief that I have found in this tornado of life – is that I am not alone. There are many other students going through the exact same struggles that I am, and the University offers many resources to help us all float back to safety. Among those resources, is a giant resource called the Career Centre. They have helped me so much finding out who I am and what type of jobs might be of interest to me based on my interests, personality and major. Although I still freak out time to time about which direction my life is going to take, I have found that my three years at Laurier have taught me a lot about myself and showed me that I am not alone in my struggle to find out who I am, and neither are you!
At Laurier you just need to ask for help and help will be given.
By: Kristyn Mott, Peer Advisor